IndividualCoaching
Build sexual confidence, understand your desires, and reconnect with pleasure.
$175 · 60 minutes · virtual
Learn more →You can lovesomeone& still want more.
Intimacy and sex coaching for individuals and couples who want more connection and pleasure.
Ways to work together
Start where change matters most.
CouplesCoaching
Communicate more openly, rebuild closeness, and explore a more satisfying sex life together.
$225 · 75 minutes · virtual
Learn more →Parkinson’s &IntimacyCoaching
Navigate changes in desire, movement, energy, and relationship roles. Find new ways to connect.
Individual & couples · virtual
Learn more →What we can explore
Whatever brings you here, there's room to talk about it.
Turn-Ons & ArousalGiving & Receiving PleasureSexual ConfidenceSexual ShameFantasyBody ConfidenceDesire DifferencesChanges in DesireSexual CommunicationBoundaries & ConsentPerformance AnxietyAttachment & Relationship PatternsConflict & RepairKink & BDSMIntimacy After Life Changes
How we explore
The CLEAR Intimacy Framework℠
The CLEAR Intimacy Framework℠ is Bree’s five-step approach to exploring intimacy through curiosity, communication, and small, consensual experiments that create opportunities for connection and pleasure.
- Clarify
- Discover what you want and how you want to feel.
- Locate
- Identify what may be getting in the way.
- Expand
- Discover new ways to experience intimacy and pleasure.
- Adapt
- Honor your needs, capacity, boundaries, and comfort.
- Review
- Reflect on what worked and what you’d change.
Meet Bree
Bree Arlyn-Pessin, J.D.
Bree Arlyn-Pessin is a Los Angeles–based intimacy and sex coach, former business litigator, and founder of Intimacy with Bree℠. She created The CLEAR Intimacy Framework℠, a five-step approach to exploring connection, desire, and pleasure.
She helps individuals and couples better understand their desires, communicate their needs, navigate differences, and deepen intimacy. Her approach encourages body awareness, challenges limiting beliefs about sex, and opens new possibilities for connection and pleasure.
A focused specialty
Parkinson’s can change intimacy. That doesn’t mean intimacy has to disappear.
Specialized intimacy coaching for people living with Parkinson’s and their partners.
Speaking & Workshops
Candid conversations. Practical tools for intimacy.
Talks and workshops for healthcare organizations, patient and caregiver groups, conferences, retreats, and private events.
Inquire about speakingSelected topics
Parkinson’s & Intimacy: Staying Connected Through Change
Let’s Talk About Sex: What Women Want in Midlife and Beyond
Talking About Sex: Communication That Works
Navigating Desire Differences
Pleasure Without Performance
Talking About Sex in Healthcare: Making Space for Intimacy
Talks and workshops are tailored to your audience and event.What happens in a session?
We talk about what brings you here and practice skills for communication and connection. All sessions are virtual and for adults 18+. Everyone remains fully clothed, with no sexual activity.
Can I attend alone or with my partner?
You can attend on your own or with a partner. Many people begin individually, even when what they want to change involves a relationship. Your partner does not need to participate.
What if I don’t know what I want?
You don’t need to know before you begin. Discovering your desires is part of the work.
Can we talk about desire differences, fantasy, or kink?
Yes. There’s room to explore desire differences, fantasy, kink, and whatever is or isn’t working for you, without judgment.
What does it cost? Do you accept insurance?
Individual coaching is $175 for 60 minutes. Couples coaching is $225 for 75 minutes. Coaching is private pay; insurance is not accepted. You can start with a free 15-minute consultation by phone or video.
How many sessions will I need?
There is no minimum commitment. We’ll discuss your goals and decide together whether a few sessions or ongoing coaching is preferable.
Is what we discuss confidential?
Your privacy matters. What you share in coaching is treated as private, subject to the terms and limitations described in your coaching agreement.
Is this therapy?
No. Coaching is educational and experiential, focused on awareness, communication, and practical skills. It is not psychotherapy, mental health treatment, or medical care, and does not replace services from a licensed healthcare professional.
Can I work with you if I’m already in therapy?
Often, yes. Coaching and therapy can complement one another when their roles are clear. With your permission, I can also collaborate with your therapist or other healthcare professionals when appropriate.
What if my concern is medical?
Coaching does not diagnose or treat medical conditions. Medical symptoms should be evaluated by an appropriate healthcare professional. Coaching can complement medical care, but does not replace it.
Start a conversation
Let's start with
what brings you here.
Tell me a little about what brings you here. We’ll connect for a complimentary 15-minute phone or video consultation to explore your goals, answer questions, and see whether working together feels like a good fit.
Los Angeles–based · Virtual coaching for individuals and couples worldwide